IS "JUST" A BLOWJOB CHEATING?

I find it interesting how some men that are committed to a girlfriend, fiancee or are married feel and think that's having a blowjob or a 69 with another woman it's OK, because they are not cheating on their partners.

Tell say: "If I don't have intercourse and just get a blowjob that's not cheating."

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So you are telling me that when a guy's dick is in my mouth, I am stroking up and down, licking, he cums in my mouth, we are not having sex? So what exactly are we doing?

The other night I was talking to a guy and he said: " Yes man feels that a blowjob is like a hand shake."

Let me tell you how this entire debate started. My girlfriend told me she was really excited she got tickets to see a British Band perform, special because she liked the lead singer, he was tall, blue eyes, black hair, with a British accent that every woman just melts for. After the show she was invites to go backstage and hangout with the band and their friends, perhaps every woman's fantasy. She was discreetly focusing on him, making small talk, smoking pot, but what she really wanted was to have sex with him. She knew was gonna be a one-night-stand since they lived in different countries, but she didn't care.

As the venue was closing everyone moved the party to a bar across the street for more drinks. The entire night they were flirting, grabbing each other, even kissing when no one was looking. She was getting excited that they were into each other. As the dreadfully 2 a.m. approached and the bar was closing she got the nerve to tell him to come home with her, which he did, she even called the Uber.

After half a bottle of whiskey, making out on the sofa, talking, smoking more pot, partying and getting naked till 6 am, she was ready to have sex, but he says: "I have a girlfriend so we can't have sex, but you can give me a blowjob", he continues, "I won't feel I am cheating if you just give me a blowjob." She end up giving him a delicious blowjob since his beautiful hard dick was looking at her and she was very horny. She never saw him again....

This is what I have to say: "Guys, we sometimes like to give blowjobs, but just that doesn't satisfy us....

So I have a question for men and women: Is just a blowjob cheating?

Let me know your thoughts....

Kisses, Selma